When I was looking, one of the manufacturers makes a shotgun with interchangeable pieces for the but plate. Cool idea, and the gun grows with the child. As far as a 12 vs 20, my 12 year old weighs in at a whopping 85 pounds and can shoot the 12 gauge without a problem, but he needs a rest. The gun's too long for him to shoot freehand. He complained more about the 20 gauge kick.